Sunday, March 30, 2014

mere christianity

Sam bought Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis.  He bought 3 books at once so I was given permission to read it while he reads the others:)




I'm a very slow reader and very distractible.  My thoughts distract me and so it takes me forever to finish anything.  I finished the Preface :) and was so impressed that I want to record the parts that are particularly moving...

     "...It is not for us to say who, in the deepest sense, is or is not close to the spirit of Christ.  We do not see into men's hearts.  We cannot judge, and are indeed forbidden to judge.  It would be wicked arrogance for us to say that any man is, or is not, a Christian in this refined sense..."

     "I hope no reader will suppose that 'mere' Christianity is here put forward as an alternative to the creeds of the existing communions -- as if a man could adopt it in preference to Congregationalism or Greek Orthodoxy or anything else.  It is more like a hall out of which doors open into several rooms.  If I can bring anyone into that hall I shall have done what I attempted.  But it is in the rooms,  not in the hall, that there are fires and chairs and meals.  The hall is a place to wait in, a place from which to try the various doors, not a place to live in.  For that purpose the worst of the rooms (whichever that may be) is, I think, preferable.  It is true that some people may find they have to wait in the hall for a considerable time, while others feel certain almost at once which door they must knock at.  I do not know why there is this difference, but I am sure God keeps no one waiting unless He sees that it is good for him to wait.  When you do get into your room you will find that the long wait has done you some kind of good which you would not have had otherwise.  But you must regard it as waiting, not as camping.  You must keep on praying for light: and, of course, even in the hall, you must begin trying to obey the rules which are common to the whole house.  And above all you must be asking which door is the true one; not which pleases you best by its paint and panelling.  In plain language, the question should never be:  'Do I like that king of service?' but 'Are these doctrines true:  Is holiness here?  Does my conscience move me towards this?  Is my reluctance to knock at this door due to my pride, or my mere taste, or my personal dislike of this particular door-keeper?'
     When you have reached your own room, be kind to those who have chosen different doors and to those who are still in the hall.  If they are wrong they need your prayers all the more; and if they are your enemies, then you are under orders to pray for them.  That is one of the rules common to the whole house."


Saturday, March 29, 2014

21

 My beautiful boy turned 21 almost 2 weeks ago!


This baby has blessed so many lives.   So loved...

Ben always made the most of his days... days filled with endless play!  


and each year we celebrate this sweet boy.

and he grows...what fun it has been!

this boy is a part of me... in little ways and big ways.  In and out of my thoughts he is there.  Part of my heart and loved so deeply.

 my boy...

 and so we gather...and celebrate...and love each other.

Ben is part of the world now.  He was tiny and was all mine. His world was small... me, our family, and our small home.  and I close my eyes and cherish those memories.  Memories are like my breath.  They are a part of me and they are as real as the objects in front of me...and they are magic.  I feel such pride in the man he has become ... our loved and adored baby boy.

Friday, March 21, 2014

volbeat

Volbeat . . .  Fargo . . .  April 17 . . . woohoo!

6 of my favorite songs from 3 different albums...

Gentlemen and Shady Ladies (2013)

"Lola Montez"

"The Sinner is You"

Beyond Hell Above Heaven (2010)

"Fallen"

"Heaven Nor Hell"

Guitar Gangsters and Cadillac Blood (2009)

"Mary Ann's Place" (Live!!!!!!)

"Light A Way"

Friday, March 14, 2014

danielle laporte

it's been awhile since I've read Danielle's Laporte's blog...it doesn't take long to sift through her writings and find something worth repeating...

Why we (should) change our minds in the 11th hour

You’re about to ship your product, wrap the gift, get dressed for the event, name the baby. Go time. Launch time. Deadline-to-meet-time. It’s time to make the final call. You’ve been working toward this for months. Money invested in designers, endless jam sessions, deep thinking, working toward THAT goal. And then…and then you look at it (clock is ticking, we’re waiting for you to sign off), and you think…it’s not quite right. We need to…. change the name, pull apart the structure, swap out the picture, switch the offer, shift gears.
And then…you want to throw up.
Change? Now?! But you’ve been so certain, so clear, so specific with what you wanted. You ASKED them to make it that way. It was your idea. You made the choices. It’s time to put this project to bed!
THE ROAD TO MEDIOCRITY IS… EASY
80% of people will proceed as planned — they’ll keep their mouth shut, save money, save face, not rock the boat.
20% (and that may be a generous portion), will risk looking like an indecisive, unreasonable, flake and they’ll put on the brakes, push for change, throw a wrench into the works, ask for unreasonable Olympian efforts at the last minute.
The people in the latter camp? They tend to be outstanding. Their risks are more likely to pay off — because they take them.
Sometimes clarity isn’t as much of a “dawning” as it is a “squeeeeeezing.”

Think of 11th hour a-ha’s as a distillation of truth — truth that’s good to act on.

We get clear about what we really truly actually for real want at pull-the-trigger time by virtue of psyche mechanics — we’ve been grinding and polishing for so long that we’re more likely to see a new vein surface in the material; and because our soul is determined to take it’s true shape in the world (not that we always let it.)
I’m not a fan of delaying, (although sometimes a sacred pause is the lever to greatness). I’m not suggesting that you let clarity derail deadlines and commitments (sometimes we label perfectionism as clarity to give ourselves the “It’s not good enough yet” excuse.)
What I’m campaigning for is that you embrace the potential genius of the last minute knowings (because they’re natural), and take a swing at total and utter madness:

Consider that your realization of how it could be better might be divine, and do whatever it takes to make it better.

The one part of the plan that isn’t changing? The plan to always give your best.

Sunday, March 9, 2014

"About Time"





"The truth is, 
I now don't travel back at all. 
Not even for the day. 
I just try to live every day 
as if I've deliberately come back to this one day 
to enjoy it as if it was the full final day 
of my extraordinary, ordinary life."